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The story you tell yourself about yourself is creating your life 🤯 Harvard instructor, behavioral researcher & author Vanessa Van Edwards explains in today’s episode of The School of Greatness 🙏 If you want to go deeper, just comment YES & I’ll send you the full episode 💫 What story are you telling yourself today? #manifestation #affirmations #neuroscience #lawofattraction #lawofassumption

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Comment ‘watch’ and I’ll DM you the full episode. Only 3 in 10 Americans socialise on a daily basis. So how good are we ACTUALLY at talking to each other anymore? Vanessa Van Edwards believes we’re living through a “connection crisis”, where conversations are becoming harder, more awkward and less satisfying, while more of our interactions are moving away from real face-to-face conversation. Vanessa is a behavioural researcher, international bestselling author and instructor at Harvard University whose work studies how people communicate, connect and understand each other. And she said something to me early in this conversation that really stayed with me: people who invest in conversation skills now are creating “career insurance”. She has spent years studying why some conversations seem effortless, why others die within minutes and what the best conversationalists are doing differently. We discussed things like: - Why “how are you?” and “what do you do?” can lead to dead-end conversations. - The 3 levels of conversation and how to move from small talk into real connection. - How awkward silence is one of our biggest conversational fears. - The questions that reveal someone’s values, motivations and personality. - 5 self-narratives that can influence how someone behaves at work and in relationships. - Why becoming better at conversation could become increasingly valuable as AI changes how we communicate. I’ve now had hundreds of conversations for this show and something Vanessa made me think about is that the best conversationalists are constantly paying attention to the person in front of them. They aren’t blindly working through the things they want to say. They’re watching, listening and adjusting. That sounds obvious until you start noticing how rarely people actually do it… Vanessa has a way of breaking human connection down into things you can actually practise, which is probably why every time we speak I leave noticing things about my own behaviour that I hadn’t noticed before. If you want to become better at talking to people, building relationships and having conversations people actually remember, I real

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How do you save a dying conversation? 👀 Awkwardness expert @vvanedwards says boring, scripted answers like “been busy” can kill a conversation fast. Instead, she recommends breaking the script. Give a simple answer, then leave a small curiosity gap that gives the other person something to ask about. What’s your go-to way to keep a conversation flowing?

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We all want 3 things: to be understood, chosen and loved ❤️ Conversation expert @vvanedwards says great conversations are one of the fastest ways to get there. Whether it’s with your boss, your partner or someone you’ve just met, deeper conversations can help you skip the small talk and feel genuinely understood. What’s the best conversation you’ve had recently? Comment ‘more’ and we’ll DM you this conversation.

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The art of conversation is dying... 💬 Conversation expert @vvanedwards says we’re talking less, and when we do, more of it is happening asynchronously through texts, DMs and voice notes. She points to rising loneliness and argues we’re missing more of the real-time back-and-forth that helps people feel connected. When was the last time you had a genuinely great conversation? Comment ‘more’ and we’ll DM you this conversation.

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